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Relationships require work
No relationship is ready made. You work on it throughout its life cycle. Sometimes we believe that we can get a microwave ready...
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Feb 10, 20224 min read
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An insecure partner
A partner who is jealous of you has their own insecurities. This person might constantly seek reassurance from you in order to fill up...
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Feb 8, 20223 min read
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Creating vocabulary for your relationship
Relationship rituals When you approach relationships from a growth perspective, it is helpful to create routines and rituals to adhere...
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Feb 7, 20223 min read
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Negative emotion is only a guide
It is what you do with negative emotions that makes a difference Evolution is only possible when you experience negative emotions....
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Feb 7, 20222 min read
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Passive aggressive behaviour and people pleasing
Passive aggressive behaviour in your relationship If you agree to your partner doing something you are not happy with, without tuning in...
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Feb 6, 20222 min read
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People and things are on loan
Instead of pondering what you are losing or have lost, consider the opportunity in your loss. We get back what we give out. If you dwell...
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Feb 5, 20222 min read
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Transforming your life!
It has been a long time since the wound you are trying to heal was inflicted. The wound has been open, getting infected and not been...
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Feb 4, 20222 min read
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Parenting yourself
Good morning, afternoon, evening or night wherever you are! Each morning, to learn commitment to the self, we practice; Meditation, ...
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Feb 4, 20222 min read
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What kind of relationship will you find?
Consider the place from which you are looking for a relationship determines the outcomes relationship you get into. When what you are...
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Feb 3, 20222 min read
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Trust in relationships
When you trust a partner, that does not mean you are putting your life in their hands. It simply means you trust that they will do what...
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Feb 2, 20222 min read
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The hidden opportunities in our weaknesses!
SWOT your life! We all have things, behaviours , habits we are good at. They might be negative, or have negative outcomes. Or they are...
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Jan 31, 20224 min read
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What does their package say?
Health conscious people tend to read the food package , to avoid consuming foods or calories they do not prefer. Relationships are the...
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Jan 30, 20222 min read
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Tips for SIFTSEM
Remember self-care- meditation, affirmations, gratitude, self-hugs, cathartic shake, deep breathing and setting an intention. ...
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Jan 30, 20222 min read
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When you keep trying and nothing is changing
If you are in a relationship where you believe that you are leading and following at the same time, address your belief system. You...
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Jan 29, 20222 min read
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Reconnection with no past resolution
In order to successfully navigate a reconnection, you need to have discussed how and why you broke up in the first place. Unless you...
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Jan 28, 20223 min read
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A major question to ask yourself when faced with a crisis
What do I need in this situation? What would a loving mother do for me in this situation? . Who do you need in that moment? Access them...
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Jan 27, 20222 min read
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Healing for relationships
When you recognise that your relationships are not promoting wellbeing , it is helpful to explore healing work. Know yourself. In order...
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Jan 26, 20222 min read
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A number of relationship lessons.
1. We do relationship according to how we were loved in childhood, unless we adapted and learn differently along the physical trail. Most...
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Jan 25, 20223 min read
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Control tendencies
When you find your partner being reactive after you express your needs, recognise that they are responding to you. If their response is...
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Jan 24, 20223 min read
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Step children
Maybe both of you brought children from previous relationships. If you are struggling with having a step child live with you when you...
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Jan 23, 20222 min read
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