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Forgiveness and your healing.
As long as you are holding on to anger , bitterness and resentment for wrongs done to you, you owe yourself self-compassion. To feel...
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Oct 19, 20212 min read
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Romantic relationship is not the priority relationship for a quality life.
Romantic relationships is not the priority relationship for a quality life. But a healthy romantic relationship can help you maintain or...
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Oct 18, 20212 min read
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Not feeling enough. Resolving issues of worthiness.
1. Try to express what you mean when you feel like you are not enough. 2. Explore examples of where you might have felt this way. b)...
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Oct 18, 20211 min read
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Prioritise your recovery from unhealthy relationship patterns
Make an intentional decision to take the steps to heal from your unhealthy relationship patterns. It might sound hard work to work on...
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Oct 17, 20213 min read
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Loving yourself with five love languages and five senses
One of the important lessons in growth is how you love yourself with five love languages and five senses. Do not wait for someone else to...
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Oct 17, 20212 min read
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Ladies If your relationship lacks progression after a year or 2 years, that is a red
Are you still doing dates twice or three times a week with no plans to move in get married or any plan you had in mind for your...
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Oct 16, 20211 min read
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Seeking support for relationship patterns
Whether it is reporting abuse, joining a support group or seeking counselling, your first step to heal from unhealthy patterns is to seek...
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Oct 16, 20213 min read
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Swallowing feedback with more water.
Most of us do not know our shortcomings or blind slots because we are surrounded by people who tell us what we want to hear. We grew up...
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Oct 16, 20212 min read
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What are you consuming in your life?
There are lessons no school will teach us. One of them is what we allow in our lives and what we consume physically, socially, and...
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Oct 15, 20213 min read
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Reconnecting with an ex
A reconnection requires reflection. Initially, your ex might reach out via text. If they are vague and not asking for a reconnection, ...
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Oct 14, 20213 min read
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The biggest responsibility we carry
What kind of people are we bringing up or bringing into the world? As parents or adults we have a duty to recognise that our patterns do...
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Oct 14, 20212 min read
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The biggest responsibility we carry
What kind of people are we bringing up or bringing into the world? As parents or adults we have a duty to recognise that our patterns do...
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Oct 14, 20212 min read
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Recovering from unhealthy relationship patterns
Reflect on how you can recover from your unhealthy ways of relating. Consider how you can focus your energy in your life where it...
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Oct 13, 20213 min read
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What is holding you back
It is not that someone left that you struggle to move forward, it is because you are focusing on them, not on yourself, and not on your...
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Oct 13, 20212 min read
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You have two options if you struggle with relationships
When people who love too much have been unsuccessful in their attempts to change a partner, or have struggled through many difficult...
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Oct 12, 20211 min read
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How does unresolved trauma impact our relationships?
We bring ourselves and our skills into relationships. How we feel about and view ourselves and how we view the world and others shape our...
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Oct 12, 20211 min read
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Progressive deterioration in the disease of loving too much
Women who love too much and how their relationship situation progressively deteriorates How she tries to fix 1. She needs to very badly...
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Oct 11, 20213 min read
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Manifestations of loving too much
People who love too much come from families which are either lonely and isolated , rejected. Or they were overburdened inappropriately...
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Oct 10, 20213 min read
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You are always ready, but you do not feel worthy of a good thing.
One important observation I have made is that when we are not ready to tackle our patterns that are not serving us, this comes from a...
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Oct 10, 20214 min read
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The disease process of loving too much
The struggle to recover from relationship addiction is just similar to recovery from any condition or addiction. However, the recovery...
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Oct 9, 20212 min read
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