You have two options if you struggle with relationships

When people who love too much have been unsuccessful in their attempts to change a partner, or have struggled through many difficult relationships, there comes a times a time to make a choice.

1. Continue to search for a perfect partner, and with their history of choosing a partner while unhealed, they are likely to gravitate towards similar people in different faces.

They can continue to look outside themselves for someone to make them happy. They can continue practising their addiction.

The excuse normally is validated by their accusations towards a partner. Or pointing fingers. They continue to search or keep trying to change and control the partner they are with

It feels easier and familiar to search for happiness outside the self. This is because it is challenging to practice discipline to access their own resources and fill themselves from within rather than from outside.

2. They can bring consciousness into their unhealthy patterns and also explore the attraction with the people they have previously gravitated towards.

However, wisdom dictates that , perhaps you have had enough, and are desperate enough to want to get better and change your life. You are aware that it is impossible, and not worth it to try and fix anyone or find a new one. The best things, the best step, the most valuable and priority helpful step you can take, is the road to recovery.