Ladies If your relationship lacks progression after a year or 2 years, that is a red

Are you still doing dates twice or three times a week with no plans to move in get married or any plan you had in mind for your relationship? 1. You need to adhere to your relationship plan. 2. If you feel as if you are on a rollercoaster in a relationship —another red flag. 3. If you are constantly arguing, remember, starting an argument requires that both people engage. There is some learning there. Disengage and focus on yourself. 4. If this person ghosts you, there is something that must have caused him to "ghost." There has to be pressure. He was not invested if you did not obviously live together or had no clear plans. He had no plans to commit. You were a friends with benefits without knowing. Bottom line is both of you need to take responsibility. Did you ignore red flags? If you want a committed relationship, there are ways to see this through the way the dynamic unfolds. If a man is into you he makes it clear that you are together. 5. Self-respect would look like communicating your exit, cutting contact and blocking. 6. Prioritise your self-relationship. 7. It might help to seek support to heal while single for now. Your worthiness is not dependent on being with this man.