What is holding you back

It is not that someone left that you struggle to move forward, it is because you are focusing on them, not on yourself, and not on your life.

It is not that you do not have certain things or people in your life. It is that you are not looking at what you have, or not focusing on what you have.

It is not that everything is going wrong in your life. It is simply that you have turned your back on what is working in favour of fixing what is wrong.

It is not that there is no love in your life. It is because you are focusing on someone to love you or be in your life while ignoring everyone else from friends, friends, children and other people who might love you.

It is not that nobody cares about you. It is mainly that you have specific people who you have prescribed the role of caring for you. You therefore disregard any care that does not come from them.

It is not that there is no help out there. It is simply this. You have assigned certain people as fit to help you without acknowledging help from other people that is being offered.

It is not that you do not have what you need. It is just because you are not paying attention to what you have.

It is not that you are forgotten. It is only that you believe there is someone out there who needs to remember you. Yes there is, but do you remember you?

It is not that your life is messed up. It is because you are staying stuck on problems instead of solutions.

It is that you are focusing on one person to meet your needs, and a prescription of how things need to be.

Criticising rather than supporting and guiding, complaining instead of expressing and being jealous instead of asking for recommendations can keep you apart from peacefulness.

Thinking you are better than others and being judgmental can prevent your state of joy and getting what you want.

Lack of appreciation holds you apart from what you want to achieve. It holds you apart from peacefulness and a state of well-being.

It is because you benefit from living in a state of gratitude and appreciation. Noticing what is working. Creating solutions for what is not, and learning from it.

Noticing kindness. There is so much being done by others for you to thrive. Balancing negative with positive feedback. Understanding that you can only learn from both. Trusting the unfolding. Not trying to force outcomes. Being in the moment. Because that is all you have.