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Heal for your children
It is not in a healthy relationship if your young children are excluded. For the sake of our children, let us learn to leave these...
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Dec 24, 20212 min read
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Loneliness following a break up
Struggling with loneliness following a break up When you are not used to being alone and struggle following a break up, it can be...
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Dec 23, 20212 min read
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Attached to someone who is not into you
If you can see that they are not trying , they are letting you down or loving them is hurting you, then it is an indication that their...
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Dec 22, 20213 min read
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Planting the seed for what you want
If there is something you really want in this life, here are some tips for you. 1. Create a vision board or dream board. Add all aspects...
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Dec 22, 20212 min read
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Verbal abuse
This is when a partner calls you names, shouts at you or snaps often. Or maybe you do that to a partner Verbal abuse is a coping...
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Dec 21, 20212 min read
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When we were abandoned
To learn forgiveness and to let go. No, it is not excusable to abandon children. Nobody can minimise that. Yet, in a painful...
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Dec 20, 20212 min read
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You need healing not relationship
When you need therapy not a relationship Sometimes, in the middle of a life crisis, we do not know what is best for us, because we have...
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Dec 19, 20212 min read
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Texting and calling without meeting in person
If someone is texting you and calling you but they are not making plans to see you, they might not be into you. It is easy to resolve...
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Dec 18, 20212 min read
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Invest your time where you reap rewards
When you are struggling with someone's behaviour, attitude or how they show up, sometimes it is only because you are not feeling your...
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Dec 18, 20213 min read
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You need a life outside relationship
Why you need your own life and circles even when in romantic relationships One person cannot give you what a whole village needs to give...
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Dec 17, 20212 min read
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If you keep asking someone to love you right
Here is what is outside your control Avoid asking someone to love you. They know what to do. It is not possible to talk someone into...
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Dec 16, 20212 min read
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Reconnections
Done right a reconnection can provide people with an opportunity for a conscious relationship. Many reconnections could succeed; If...
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Dec 15, 20211 min read
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My hope for you
I hope that you do not decide you are not going to be happy, ever , because of one person who does not want to be with you. I hope you...
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Dec 13, 20212 min read
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Do not rush to take control
Rushing decisions while still dating If your date or partner's ex is liking their posts on social media This is one of the issues which...
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Dec 13, 20212 min read
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When your ex who is in another relationship keeps coming back
The last thing you need is to allow an ex to keep coming back and forth between you and their new relationship. Reasons they keep coming...
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Dec 12, 20213 min read
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Looking for love in the wrong places.
Many times when we are still not aware of the importance of loving ourselves we tend to look for love in the wrong places. We get into...
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Dec 12, 20212 min read
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Self-leadership in relationships
#selfhealersdiaries Only you need to hold the reigns for your life. You have the power in you to lead your life and live your best life....
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Dec 11, 20212 min read
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Complimenting your man
How to acknowledge and appreciate a man using compliments to make him feel seen, heard and accepted. Compliments. If you are warm and...
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Dec 11, 20213 min read
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Relationship Ready
There is such a thing as being relationship ready If you want to start a business or build a house, you need a plan. Same approach...
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Dec 10, 20214 min read
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When they pull away after sex
It is hard to move forward if you slept with someone and you have caught feelings. Perhaps they are pulling away, and you regret the sex....
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Dec 10, 20212 min read
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