My hope for you

I hope that you do not decide you are not going to be happy, ever , because of one person who does not want to be with you. I hope you do not stop showing up for yourself because of one failed relationship. I hope you do not start to self-sabotage because you have not met a romantic partner. I hope you do not start some unhealthy habits because you believe you cannot find love. I hope you do not start to feel unworthy because someone is not prioritising you. I hope you do not settle with someone unsettled with you. I hope you do not start to disrespect yourself by begging to be in relationship , any relationship. I hope you do not lose confidence in yourself because someone chose differently. I hope you do not feel as if you are a failure because of a break up. I hope you do not hold on to someone who is loosening their grip on you. I hope you do not put yourself through difficulties and aerobatics, to be seen by one person in the whole world of more than 7 billion. I hope you do not shout until you lose your voice just to be heard by someone who is stifling your voice. I hope you do not contort yourself to fit into the life of someone who does not want to acknowledge you. I hope you stop crying for empathy in front of someone who is the cause of those tears. I hope you stop seeking attention from someone who is walking away from you. I hope you stop asking for help from someone who is causing you to need help. I hope you do not lose your, joy and you do not miss pleasure of life, worried about the behaviour of someone living their life without a care. I hope you do not waste time monitoring movements of someone who is moving forward, while you stay stuck behind their receding footsteps. I hope you do not get yourself harmed, fighting for someone who does not care whether you live or die. I hope you remember the shortness of life, Your unconditional worthiness. I hope you respect yourself. I hope you love yourself. I hope you value yourself. I hope you appreciate yourself. I hope you recognise that this person, is only one of many people. I hope you understand that , out there, there is someone still waiting to meet you and love you right. I hope you wipe your tears, let go of your fears get up and put your foot on forward gears!