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Fear of abandonment leads to loving too much
It is because of fear of being abandoned that make you do anything to keep the relationship going. You believe you might not survive...
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Sep 11, 20213 min read
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Post infidelity and your partner is still talking to the person they betrayed you with.
Your partner might continue to talk to their betrayal mate , because the issues leading to the break up were not addressed in your...
Memory
Sep 10, 20214 min read
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The impact of receiving inadequate love is loving too much and fixing
If you received inadequate love in your childhood, you have unmet needs. For this reason you try to meet them by becoming a caregiver for...
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Sep 10, 20212 min read
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The dichotomy of control
This is a very Stoic concept and the underpinning theory leading towards arete! If you want to live a peaceful and happy life, each time...
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Sep 9, 20212 min read
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Towards minimising Projection in all relationships
1. Giving and receiving feedback to promote learning conversations. 2. Learning to love and include yourself. If you want to improve your...
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Sep 9, 20215 min read
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Is your partner talking to other people?
If your partner is openly talking to other people in a monogamous relationship. That would feel disrespectful. It is also a sympton. A...
Memory
Sep 8, 20212 min read
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Self-awareness....Clean your house first
If you want visitors to stay or someone to move into your house, you need to know it well and have it presentable in some way. It is...
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Sep 8, 20212 min read
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Understanding dysfunctional families
Your emotional needs were not met. These are not only needs for love and affection. It means your perceptions and feelings were largely...
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Sep 8, 20212 min read
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Mindsets that can keep us stuck - Superiority complex
We might feel like we are better than others or we do not fit in. We might feel like others are not good enough for us, men , women...
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Sep 8, 20212 min read
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On and off relationships
On and off relationships are due to a lack of boundaries When you are constantly breaking up and getting back together, it is because you...
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Sep 7, 20213 min read
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Initiating healing while still making sense of loving too much.
When you love too much, you might be desperate and hungry for love, but familiar with rejection, yet never identifying it as such. You...
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Sep 7, 20212 min read
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Checklist for someone who loves too much
Loving too much does not happen accidentally. Society and dysfunctional families are the root of this phenomenon. Checklist for people...
Memory
Sep 6, 20212 min read
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When you want to reconnect with an ex
Remember, your relationship ended. If you decide to start afresh, initiate no contact first, then heal for a period. Create timelines....
Memory
Sep 5, 20211 min read
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Dysfunctional families are the source of women who love too much
The reason you many struggle to heal your habit of "loving too much" is because you might not see it as an addiction. You might also...
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Sep 5, 20212 min read
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Practical tips to develop secure attachment
How to initiate the development of a secure attachment. Secure attachment has four distinctive features according to Bowlby: 1....
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Sep 4, 20214 min read
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The effects of loving too much on our relationships and parenting
When we love men too much, sometimes we have children for them hoping they can then stay with us for the sake of the baby. When we are...
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Sep 4, 20214 min read
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Some signs you love too much
Perhaps you feel lonely and believe that a romantic relationship might heal your loneliness. You are hard working and all you do is focus...
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Sep 4, 20212 min read
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The relationship contract!
Learn self-control, to avoid falling in love with people you have not met. Just because you are talking to someone online, and you feel a...
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Sep 4, 20212 min read
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What is your partner looking for in you.
There are behaviours and mindsets that promote healthy relationship. Here are some of them 1. You need to Love Yourself so that you are...
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Sep 3, 20213 min read
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Towards change for women who love too much
We might each believe that our problems are not that bad. Yet, our stories are complicated and full of pain. We relate with compassion to...
Memory
Sep 3, 20211 min read
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