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Brand you! A mindset challenge
SEPTEMBER MOVEMENT SOSTAC in dating and relationships. Brand you! A mindset challenge Whether in a relationship or not, put on your...
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Dec 10, 20212 min read
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Mindset that does not improve your relationship outcomes
Your relationship problems are about how the other person feels about you, which determines the dynamic. Your relationship problems have...
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Dec 9, 20212 min read
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Signs you are healing for relationships
Signs you are healing for relationships Relationships become a bonus, not a must have. The single life is an opportunity to take a break...
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Dec 8, 20212 min read
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Your relationships affect your children
The way you do relationships is not only affecting you. Sometimes we can get wrapped up in romantic relationships and how we feel done...
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Dec 7, 20214 min read
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Why romance might not be happening as you want it.
There are reasons why you might not be meeting the person who is healthy for you. Or why you might gravitate towards unhealthy dynamics. ...
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Dec 6, 20213 min read
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Entitlement
We might assign roles to others such as wanting them to: "Make us feel less anxious through changed behaviour!" "To listen to us more!"...
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Dec 6, 20212 min read
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Know what you want in relationships
One important thing in life is to know what you want and not let anyone spell it out for you. If someone is not sure about what they...
Memory
Dec 5, 20212 min read
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The contest to be the good guy
Following a relationship break down, a contest might ensure, as to who is right or wrong. The contest might be about which one of you is...
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Dec 4, 20213 min read
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Reconnecting with your ex
A reconnection requires reflection. Consider these questions. Consider what broke you up. What has changed? Why would you want them...
Memory
Dec 3, 20212 min read
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Lack of self-control is due to absence of tuning in to emotions
It is essential to recognise that, the answer to your challenge is rooted in acceptance of emotions. Unaddressed or repressed, emotions...
Memory
Dec 3, 20212 min read
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Let it hurt, then let it go.
As humans of habit, we can struggle to let go of self-protective habits. We can find all excuses to hold on to unhelpful patterns. We can...
Memory
Dec 3, 20211 min read
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When your man is popular
Perhaps your partner is good-looking, follows and is followed by many people on social media. This might feel threatening for you. Even...
Memory
Dec 2, 20212 min read
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Receiving mode
Everything we ask for can be accomplished. There is nothing out there we cannot achieve. The only limitation is that due to trauma and...
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Dec 2, 20212 min read
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There is no rush to take them home
Slowing down your relationships at the start or during a reconnection Avoid taking someone home too soon when you meet them. Do not take...
Memory
Dec 1, 20212 min read
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A partner needs space away from a relationship
When a partner or the person you are dating asks for space away from the relationship to focus on something personal, here are some tips...
Memory
Nov 30, 20213 min read
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Enter each situation with tools
When you learn to drive, they teach you to check your vehicle first. In your life, that is you. They then teach you to assess that there...
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Nov 30, 20212 min read
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Gravitating towards bad boys or feisty girls
If you find yourself attracted to bad boys who you know to have unhealthy patterns, or who tell you they sleep around, or whom you notice...
Memory
Nov 29, 20212 min read
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Feel your feelings. Feed your hunger
There is a powerful use of feeling your feelings that you might miss out on before you heal. Or as you heal. Your feelings are an...
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Nov 29, 20214 min read
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Friends with an ex
There are no right or wrong answers for friendship with an ex, but timing is important. In the early stages of a break up, it can be...
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Nov 28, 20212 min read
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Misconceptions about relationships
Things might not be what they seem to be and your feelings might not be accurate. Things might not be what they seem,or what you want...
Memory
Nov 27, 20212 min read
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