Misconceptions about relationships

Things might not be what they seem to be and your feelings might not be accurate.

Things might not be what they seem,or what you want them to be. You might believe in a relationship that is non-existent, or believe a situation to be what it is not.

Just because you have known someone for a while, it does not mean you can be in a relationship together.

Just because you have maintained contact over a period, it does not mean that you are now in a relationship.

Just because they are chasing you , it does not mean they are in love with you.

Just because you slept together, it does not mean you are in a relationship.

Just because you have children together, it does not mean you control what they do.

Just because you have been friends for a long time, it does not mean you will be right for romance.

Just because you have gone out on a few dates, it does not mean you can be together again.

Just because you have been in a relationship for for a while, it dos not mean you can get married.

Just because you have his child, it does not mean you are his partner or wife.

Just because you are married or in a relationship, it does not mean you own the other person.

Just because you hang out together, it does not mean you can be together.

Just because they do help you with tasks, pay your bills and are attentive to you, it does not mean they want to marry you..

Just because they are responsive to your offers, it does not mean they want to be with you.

Just because they tell you they are unhappy with their partner and plan to leave their partner, it does not mean they will their partner to be with you, and that you will be happy together.

Even if they leave their partner for you, it does not mean they will not leave you for someone else also.

Just because you are in a relationship, it might not mean that you will be together forever.

Whatever they do , remember that their words need to match action.

Remember, to enjoy the moment. That is all you have.

A relationship is as good as it lasts. Quality over length.

Above all, remember to be at your best behaviour.

To let go if things are not working out.

They owe you nothing.

Neither do you them.

Everything and everyone is on loan.