Signs you are healing for relationships

Signs you are healing for relationships

Relationships become a bonus, not a must have. The single life is an opportunity to take a break from the hustle and bustle of pair bonds. You date yourself a lot. You date your inner circle.

You are comfortable taking a break to focus on your inner journey following a break up.

You have made peace with your singular life and also welcome relationships that help you grow.

Dating is more fun and everyday is a life lived.

You are looking for a partner, who is on the same page, not someone to save you, or a saviour.

You no longer feel jealous of, or compare yourself with people in relationships. You are now focusing on your own journey.

You recognise red flags for what they are. And act of them without being reactive.

You do not try to fix, if they are not stepping up or if you notice glaring red flags.

You no longer attach to outcomes. Or try to make something happen.

You no longer make excuses for someone's unhealthy behaviours, but you do not blame or complain. You simply release them, and allow them to focus on their path.

You no longer take rejection personally. You recognise that which each person who rejects you, you are on your way to the right match.

You release wrong matches early on. You avoid attaching to them , which might lead to dysfunctionality. You no longer waste time.

You no longer look for love in a face, a wallet or body. You now assess virtue.

You no longer jump into bed with people early on. You recognise that there is no rush.

You recognise that sex is overrated. There is more to relationships than just sex.

You make your decisions based on how you feel about the relationship, instead of what you want from the relationship. Or the potential of the relationship.

You no longer do on and off relationships. You now know what you want and recognise the unhealthiness of rollercoaters.

You no longer have time to scrutinise someone's behaviour that is not consistent with what you want. You accept their behaviour as a sign that you are not on the same page.

You are prioritising self-care even when you are in a relationship. You have a sense of belonging within yourself.

You can make your own decisions without basing them on what someone else wants. You know what you want and you are not afraid to wait for it.

You see through manipulation. However, you do not get into convincing mode to try and change them. You simply act from a place of how that makes you feel.

Life is more peaceful and relationships are no longer a battleground.

You and your partner feel as if you are free to love each other without pressure.

You feel safe in your relationship. You feel safe in your body.

You feel safe without feeling as if you will drown outside a relationship.

You know that when it is right, struggle is not a part of it.

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