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Not feeling good enough?
Some people struggle with not feeling good enough, not feeling loveable or worthy. We all have moments of doubts, insecurities or...
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Mar 31, 20224 min read
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Why are you choosing this person?
Why are you choosing this person to be your partner? There is a reason why you might choose a particular person for relationship, just...
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Mar 30, 20223 min read
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Action beyond the psychology classroom
Action beyond the psychology classroom Anything you are taught is not supposed to only provide you with theoretical knowledge. Beyond the...
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Mar 29, 20223 min read
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Where do you see yourself in future?
Is this where you see yourself in a year, 2 years or 10 years from now? Whether it is a relationship, a job, a friendship or life...
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Mar 28, 20224 min read
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Who hurt you?
Why am I triggered right now? Or why was I triggered that time? Revisit it! One helpful lesson when healing is to pay attention to...
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Mar 27, 20222 min read
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How do you improve your relationships?
By changing your routine through change of attitude If you are struggling in your relationships or, perhaps in your life following a...
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Mar 26, 20223 min read
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Frequency of healing
How often do I heal? You ask! How often do you eat? I ask You eat daily. You eat when you are hungry. You might eat sometimes because...
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Mar 26, 20221 min read
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In charge of your life
Be aware of your every step Behind every behaviour, every decision or choice you make is emotion, sensation and thoughts. The reason why...
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Mar 25, 20222 min read
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Signs you need therapy not a relationship right now
Sometimes, in our rush to get into a romantic relationship, we might not recognise the present priority. The priority might be healing....
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Mar 24, 20222 min read
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Do not beg anyone to stay
Trying to beg someone who has left to come back when they are ignoring you. Life is opinion or perception. If someone's perception is...
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Mar 23, 20222 min read
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An attitude of gratitude
Gratitude for the present moment helps towards unconditional peacefulness and satisfaction. If you are happy now before you get into a...
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Mar 22, 20222 min read
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Adult children of alcoholic parents
Adult children of alcoholic parents If you are struggling with alcohol addiction or you have parents who have alcohol addiction, it helps...
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Mar 21, 20223 min read
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Partner parenting behaviours
Social media followers and comments online If you have repeatedly communicated to your partner that you are not happy about them...
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Mar 20, 20222 min read
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Control tendencies
Control tendencies Normally when you feel the urge to do something, to talk to someone about something that they are not doing, to call...
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Mar 20, 20222 min read
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These married men
If you are dating a married man or considering dating one, reflect on the following; Through no fault of our own we attach to people who...
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Mar 18, 20222 min read
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What happens when you do nothing?
Question to ask yourself: What happens if you do nothing about a situation? Not everything you encounter deserves your contribution,...
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Mar 17, 20222 min read
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Bedtime reflection: Honour of self-betrayal?
#selfreparenting Did you honour yourself today As we live and breathe, each day we encounter many streams that can carry us wherever they...
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Mar 17, 20222 min read
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Behaviour and consequences
You might complain sometimes, that someone's , let us say a partner's attitude has changed. Perhaps the partner is doing something that...
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Mar 16, 20222 min read
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Practical tips to heal a trauma bond
As with anything you need to tackle in life, explore root cause. Ask yourself these questions; "Why am I here?" Or, "How did I end up...
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Mar 15, 20223 min read
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Little shows of self-care
Not giving up on yourself, but giving up expectations on others is self-care. Not pushing anyone for answers is self-care! Stillness is...
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Mar 14, 20221 min read
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