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Why you love too much
You are chemically dependent. Except your chemicals are generated in a relationship. You came from a troubled childhood, full of stress...
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Sep 2, 20212 min read
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To women who love too much
Many women who love too much find themselves in unhealthy relationships. Despite the pain and dissatisfaction loving too much is a common...
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Sep 2, 20211 min read
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How do we stop loving too much?
To stop looking for love in the wrong places, we go back home to "mother!" We each have an inner parent to meet unmet needs, soothe...
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Rotation . Dating multiple people .
That is important for first few dates to screen people. It is actually a helpful strategy to avoid attaching someone to your goals. You...
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Sep 1, 20211 min read
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Reframe your inner critic
Break up and refraining the inner critic Rather than asking for help to get your ex from a toxic relationship back, would it not be more...
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Aug 31, 20212 min read
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Healthy friendships
To develop genuine friendships and safe social spaces requires honesty and boundaries. If you are going to grow new friends or maintain...
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Aug 31, 20213 min read
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Why someone might leave relationship with you.
Many times you might struggle to understand why someone has left relationship with you. Perhaps you have known this person for a while...
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Aug 30, 20213 min read
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Why we ask the 3-5 Whys of root cause analysis
In this community, you might struggle to understand what we are on about when we answer your questions or give you tips for relationship....
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Aug 29, 20212 min read
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The orphans of love.
We are the Oliver Twists of our time, the orphans of love. We were starved of love in our young days and now ask for more of the less...
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Aug 29, 20212 min read
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Learning to trust the process
In Africa we have a proverb, "Some people can die from thirst while their legs are in water." We might be in a place where we are in a...
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Aug 29, 20215 min read
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Texting back or responding to a partner's communication
You do not need to explain yourself to anyone about how long it takes you to text back. You can respond when you feel like responding...
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Aug 28, 20212 min read
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When you keep holding on to someone who is not on the same page
Look into resources for attachment and abandonment awareness on friends abroad relationship school. What is happening is that you are...
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Aug 28, 20212 min read
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If a partner is abusive to you
Work on yourself on self-love and create boundaries. Uphold your boundaries. Do not compromise your values. When someone is calling you...
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Aug 27, 20212 min read
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Bedtime reflection
Before going to bed tonight, invite your observer to reflect on how many times you might have jumped to conclusions today. How many times...
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Aug 27, 20213 min read
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When the person you are in a relationship with or trying to date ignores you!
Being ignored does not feel good. You might feel worthless. You might believe you are not good enough. However, the painful part of...
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Aug 27, 20212 min read
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We heal in relationships, but you need to work on the first important relationship.
While you might feel rushed to get into a relationship, it might help to focus on yourself for some time. A romantic relationship is...
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Aug 27, 20213 min read
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Your inner peace
SIFTSEM in capitals. A state of unconditional peacefulness does not mean that there are no problems in your life. It does not mean that...
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Aug 27, 20212 min read
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Unhealthy relationships
Life lessons I would like to raise awareness that toxicity is not confined to pair bond relationships only, it can apply to family and...
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Aug 27, 20212 min read
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He is just not into you
There are signs you might notice in a relationship which might be indicators that a man is not into you. Here are some of them. 1. He...
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Aug 26, 20212 min read
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10 Things you do not have to ask for from a partner
If you know your value, you do not need to put yourself on the sale rack. As a human being who values yourself, there are behaviours and...
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Aug 26, 20213 min read
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