He is just not into you

There are signs you might notice in a relationship which might be indicators that a man is not into you. Here are some of them.

1. He wants to go with the flow because he is not sure about the relationship with you. It does not matter whether it is him or his and, the relationship is not ringing his bells.

2. He is inconsistent with contact and communication. If he wants to be with you, he will make you feel steady with consistency.

3. He does not oblige when you make requests. He might not consider your feelings.

4. He treats you badly. Again because he does not respect your feelings.

5. He sees or contacts you only if it suits him. He wants to condition you to do relationship his way for less demands on him.

6. The relationship is not progressing. These are rough guides, not black and white. No exclusivity within 3 months. No relationship status. No introductions within 6 months. No plans to either move in or promises of marriage around a year.

7. You do not really know where you stand. If he wants you, he would make things clear and ensure you are certain about where things are going.

8. He continues to see other people. Because he is not totally invested in you.

9. He is talking to you about other women. He does not respect you. He might not see you in his future and therefore view you like a friend.

10. It is all about sex. You only meet for sex because he does not want relationship with you.

11. He ignores your communication. He does not fear losing you.

12. He might talk to you without making plans to meet you. He is not interested in taking things further.

If a man is into you, he will make an effort to make sure you do not feel confused about where you stand. He will do his best to respect you and to treat you with love compassion, acknowledging you for who you are.