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Understand your fight and flight behaviours
Understanding your fight and flight go to behaviours is important for healing. An awareness of how you behave when your fight or flight...
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Aug 7, 20212 min read
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Self-trust matters in your life and relationships
The key to healthy relationships lie in your self-relationship strengthened with acts of self-love. One of the bricks to build the...
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Aug 6, 20212 min read
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Some hopeless situations some women end up in
From the outset a man might make his intentions clear, but a woman might choose to disregard his communication. She might be focusing on...
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Aug 6, 20213 min read
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Spiritual road rage
As we travel on the journey of life with others, we need to be aware of our road rage and its impact on the quality of our lives and...
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Aug 5, 20213 min read
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Why we need tools for self-management or self-parenting
The reason why we all need tools to manage or parent ourselves is simple. As children we constantly need someone to reassure and soothe...
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Aug 5, 20212 min read
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Making excuses for a partner's bad behaviour
There is a difference between believing in someone and putting up with bad behaviour. There is a difference between supporting a lover...
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Aug 5, 20212 min read
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Many of us are still fighting playground bullies
We have maintained and still try to improve our physical appearance; exercising for an ideal body weight and for improved health,...
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Aug 4, 20212 min read
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Say hello to yourself
Get into the habit of asking yourself questions before you take any action, instead of asking others questions, when it is too late....
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Aug 3, 20212 min read
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Put down the "pick me" banner!
Put down the "pick me!" "pick me!" banner for someone who is hot and cold A lesson in valuing yourself is to refrain from asking someone...
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Aug 2, 20212 min read
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It is not personal when a partner treats you badly
It becomes personal when you allow it! If your partner is not doing what you want or what you are asking, they are choosing not to. They...
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Aug 1, 20212 min read
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The problem is we think we have so much time.
We might be : Waiting for someone else, maybe a lover to change, to be happy. Waiting for a lover who has a partner to leave their...
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Aug 1, 20212 min read
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Seeing people through their pain
Sometimes we need to see people through their pain, instead of their behaviour. When people are behaving in a way that we might feel is...
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Aug 1, 20213 min read
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Dating a person you feel is above your class
"Above my class" is a human construct that you need to throw away. How is it working out for you so far? Too beautiful for me. Too rich....
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Aug 1, 20213 min read
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Denial prevents you from leaving a toxic relationship
The only way to improve your relationship outcomes is by, foremost acknowledging that you have relationship problems. If you are in a...
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Jul 31, 20212 min read
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How do I know the next person will be good for me?
Following tumultuous relationships, it can feel daunting to date again. What might be more challenging is not knowing whether you will...
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Jul 30, 20211 min read
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You do not have to open a "love me" academy for a partner to treat you well.
Your role as a man includes leading and protecting the connection. A woman can respond and connect. Neither of you is responsible for...
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Jul 29, 20213 min read
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Sex is not a pathway to commitment
One mistake to avoid in life is to use sex as a weapon to get commitment or to stay in someone's life. There are people out there...
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Jul 28, 20212 min read
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What would you like to see in the world?
In your life? Daily? Create a vision board. Speak life into what you want and live the example and standard. Any changes you want to see,...
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Jul 27, 20212 min read
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Stick to your agenda
When you start a goal, it is helpful, where possible to get support and feedback from others. There are also situations where you have...
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Jul 23, 20213 min read
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Staying with someone who is cheating on you?
When you stay with someone who is cheating on you, here is what you might need to reflect on. Ask yourself , " What am I doing here?"...
Memory
Jul 22, 20213 min read
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