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Why You Might Pursue a Man Aggressively
Why You Might Pursue a Man Aggressively You’re a Daughter of a Physically or Emotionally Absent Father Growing up with a father who was...
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Feb 25, 20253 min read
Why It’s Counterproductive to Chase a Man
Pursuing a man in a way that feels like chasing can create more distance than connection. It’s a dynamic that often backfires, leaving...
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Feb 23, 20253 min read
How to Take Responsibility in Your Life and Relationship
Taking responsibility in a relationship is a powerful step toward fostering healthier dynamics. Below, I’ll outline how to approach this...
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Feb 20, 20253 min read


Create an environment that allows growth in your relationship
Fostering a healthy, growth-oriented relationship. Below, I’ll break down each point and provide guidance on how to approach these...
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Feb 11, 20256 min read
The manipulative martyrdom of staying in an unhealthy relationship
Personal responsibility in relationships. Staying in an unhealthy relationship where your needs aren't met, and then blaming your partner...
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Feb 8, 20252 min read
When you are not on the same page about commitment
This is a common and often painful mismatch in relationship expectations, where both parties are not aligned in their desires for the...
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Feb 7, 20252 min read


Trauma responses in relationships
Instead of passive aggressive behaviour, walking on eggshells or Aggression towards a partner, do inner work so that you learn to address...
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Feb 6, 20252 min read
Inner work
The concept of "inner work" — personal growth, self-awareness, and psychological and emotional development — is more about the substance...
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Jan 27, 20252 min read
Healing a Break up emotional regulation and replacement activities
Here's the comprehensive breakup recovery plan with the addition of healing the inner child: Break Up Plan: No Contact Commit to No...
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Jan 16, 20253 min read
When a partner turns off location and you plan your visit
Here's an exploration of different perspectives and ways to handle the situation: Alternative Perspectives: Privacy and Autonomy: From...
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Jan 14, 20252 min read
You need to know where you stand in a relationship
Clarity in intentions and compatibility in goals are crucial for a healthy relationship. Define Your Relationship Goals: Before entering...
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Jan 13, 20251 min read


Unsolicited advice to a partner
Unsolicited advice to a partner A crucial aspect of relationship dynamics is focusing on personal boundaries and self-awareness rather...
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Jan 12, 20252 min read
When you meet someone new for relationships
This advice encapsulates a balanced approach to forming new relationships, emphasizing personal growth, emotional regulation, and...
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Jan 11, 20252 min read


How to know you're in a situationship
Situationships are romantic or sexual relationships that lack clear definitions, commitments, or labels. Here are some common signs that...
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Jan 1, 20253 min read
The Unofficial Guide to Dating with Dignity
Women: Another woman's man isnt a love potential Chapter 1: The Golden Rule Another Woman's Partner: Off-limits! Imagine your favorite...
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Dec 24, 20242 min read
Assess the Type of Parents Who Raised You
We're all products of our environment, particularly the nurturing (or lack thereof) we received in our formative years. The type of...
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Dec 23, 20243 min read


If you are still crushing on an ex turned friend and they break
When your ex who is now friends with you and are interested in breaks up here are some reflections Sometimes you hold on to an ex in the...
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Nov 17, 20242 min read


Why your life and relationships are not improving
The reason your life or relationships aren't improving Lack of intention Theres a difference between having intention to heal and wanting...
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Nov 16, 20242 min read


The person who isnt treating you well doesn't get to decide whether you continue the relationship
Your inconsistent relationship partner isn't the one you ask whether you need to break up. If you are with someone who's not stepping...
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Nov 14, 20241 min read
10 ways abusive relationships unfold
10 ways abusive relationships unfold 10 ways abusive relationships unfold Abusive relationships are a result of differences that are not...
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Oct 19, 20244 min read
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