The person who isnt treating you well doesn't get to decide whether you continue the relationship

Your inconsistent relationship partner isn't the one you ask whether you need to break up.

If you are with someone who's not stepping into their role or they are treating you poorly, it is not them you need to ask for permission to end a relationship.

You need to step into your power and recognise that you are responsible for your own best interest decisions.

Deferring such an important decision to leave an unhealthy situation to the person who is responsible for your reflection to leave is in part an indication that you want to make something happen.

This happens because you feel that by asking this person If you should break up they might change their behaviour and treat you better.

When you stay and they do not change, you continue to ask questions of others or opinions about what to do, but you know what to do.

While you might want to avoid the pain, it is helpful to recognise that you can prolong the pain as you cannot change a

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nyone but your strategy.

You partner is choosing and you need to make decisions in your best interest.