When your new suitor or the person you are dating does not contact you for days.

There is a difference between pacing the relationship and lack of interest. If someone is slowing down the relationship, they will still stay in touch, but not rush relationship or bombard you with communication.

However, lack of consistency or regular contact, might simply mean someone is not into you.

If a date goes for a few days without contact, or the communication is erratic, that is not a good sign if you want a committed relationship. You need to start as you wish to continue.

If you accept lack of contact for long periods that is what will continue.

If you put up with inconsistency, that is what you are likely to get.

The idea is not to challenge someone's ways. You can appreciate when they reach out.( It feels good to hear from you!etc)

If no change, express what makes you feel comfortable in a relationship.( I enjoy and love daily contact in relationships.)

If there is no change, understand that it is not personal. It helps to take their behaviour as a reflection of where they are at in this relationship.

Some people want a relationship, but not with you , either because you are not the right person or they are not ready.

It helps to avoid trying to rush them to get into relationship that they are not ready for.

It also helps not to try and convince them you are right for them.

It equally helps to respect yourself enough to respect their choices and to keep moving forward.