What makes a man leave relationship with you?

If you have been wondering why a man would stay in a relationship for 6 months or more, with the promise of happy ever after then here is what you need to know.

1. Men want to make us happy. When you are happy and accept his "giving", show that you need him without being needy, his hero instinct is activated. If you allow the dance of energies and trust him to step into his role, he feels that he is providing and protecting the connection. This is why he becomes dejected if he does not satisfy you sexually or when you constantly complain and nag him. He takes that as a sign that he cannot make you happy.

2. Men want to feel like they are winning with us.

Men are competitive. If he makes you happy, laugh or sees you laughing in his presence, or you are glowing and cheery, around him or in your communication, he feels like he is doing an awesome job.

When you can receive from him and he hears you say , " thank you" and you giggle with anticipation or wink at him in that little dress on the way out for dinner, he feels like a champion.

Independence is one thing, but a man wants to be needed too. When he is not needed, he feels like a failure and there is no feedback about what he is doing well, he will feel emasculated.

3. He wants to feel good around you

Your happiness and his winning are great moments that makes him feel good and makes him want to be around you more.

That is because it is easy to make you happy. This is when you seem to be having fun and are relaxed in his presence, doing stuff together, not being an emotional burden or expressing your needs healthily. If that stops happening and you always have something negative to say, he does not see the need to continue the relationship. That is why he might leave. Or he might come and go because he is hoping the situation will reset. Many men are more naturally compelled to gravitate towards what feels good most of the time.

If you are finding that your man is not stepping up, or he is not moving the relationship forward or is distant, is not consistent, is pulling away or has left, it is simply because he does not feel good around you. He feels the he does not have a job in the relationship with you for whatever reason.

Arm yourself with relationship skills to trigger your man's hero instinct to make him feel like he is winning. This will make him feel good around you. Appreciation, compliments, boundaries on the inside, expressing needs with warmth and softness and receiving from him are key components of keeping the relationship going.

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