There is a life beyond here

When you are struggling, it feels like that is all there is to life...your struggle.

Imagine yourself going into the future and seeing a better you there!

Go backwards and find out how you got there. This will give you the push to start your healing. This will encourage you to create space for something new instead of holding on to what is not serving you.

Do not stay in relationships where you have to keep questioning yourself.

I can assure you this. There is a man or woman out there who is willing to walk with you, to meet your needs and to love you in reciprocity.

You have love surrounding you

1. However, you also need to realise that you are already surrounded with loving people.

Appreciate people who are making an effort to help you, to encourage you, to talk you because that is the love you need.

If you embrace this love you are getting now, the universe will give you more in all forms including the form you are wanting.. romance.

Sat here and in all your encounters are the training ground for your next relationship. Rather than seek specific love from a specific person that is not here, actually notice the love you are actually getting. Are you in receiving mode?

2. Secondly, you cannot get something good without appreciation of what you have. And without removing the people who are not showing you love you want.

What you want comes into the space you create, when you let the person you are holding onto go.

Are you in a state of allowing?

By the very act of appreciation and being in the moment, you invite more of what you seek in your life.

By the same token of holding on to expired relationships, you close yourself off to potential matches. There is no space for them to come into your life.

Heal your inner child and love yourself.

Learn detachment and letting go.

Trust the process.

Learn and hold on to tools for self-care so that you begin to commit to yourself.

Find accountability to let go of toxic relationships.

Help others to avoid too much self-focus.

Notice kindness.