Partners/men who choose women who love too much

The kind of men who gravitate towards women who love too much. (This can apply to same sex relationships).

There are specific types of men who choose women who love too much. These men will enable a perfect duet to unfold in the relationship.

1. Some of these men have addictions. The women provide a feeling of safety, which to the man is a powerful appeal. The women or partner might help their man or partner stay sick, so that they can care for him.This is subconscious.

2. If the woman or partner seeks help or tries to set boundaries and change, the men will retaliate. The men may look for another codependent partner.

3. These men or partners can become so sick in their addictions or neediness that they only have two options. To die or recover.

4. Some men may be flattered by being noticed by the women who love too much who might be pretty. Or the woman has something the man attaches worthiness to.

5. The men might accept the woman who accepts even just a little bit of the man's investment. Women who can do anything for him for a bit of time or sex.

6. The men might be hooked in by blind devotion, sexual bliss and the hard work this woman puts in, to free a man from his "unhappy" relationship or marriage.

7. Emotionally unavailable men who have never been physically present to another person or in a loving and committed relationship attract women who love too much. Self-proclaimed players or people who are either constantly running or involved in dangerous escapades. These men might participate in tension generating activities to avoid their despair and avoid pain and helplessness at being emotionally abandoned by their mothers or fathers.

These men may meet women who love too much and who will show the men understanding and compassion. When he disappears as he sometimes does, these women wait patiently. The women seemingly have love, endurance and stability to handle whatever the unavailable man does.

The relationship works when he is not there, but when he starts to sort himself out, she runs. She lives in a fantasy, and she requires to be needed. When she is no longer needed, she looks for another project. She creates chaos or seeks another unavailable man.

7. The men might be emotionally dependent, or suffering a crisis in their life. They might be feeling helpless.The women who love too much might be eager to help. As he recovers from his crisis, such as a divorce, his need for the woman might be reduced.

8. Some men might meet women who love too much when the men are in trouble, drunk or drugged. She will willingly take care of him. She protects him through his addictions, which in turn prolongs his addiction through enablement.

9.The men might yearn to be loved and not want to be alone , but without the risk of closeness. They might want a friends with benefits and the women willingly accepts.

This helps the woman care for the man, and then leave him alone so that she is good to him bu giving him what he want.

10. He might lack social skills and she might make excuses for him, that he is shy, not indifferent. She will be there for him so that she is needed to support him socially.

What to do

When you meet someone, your initial encounters can tell you a lot about them.

The way they show up, communicate and their attitude and style , and what they do not say, will lead you to understand whether you have anything healthy in common.

Identify whether you benefit from continuing communication with them.

Consider if they are fun to be around without addictions.

Avoid considering whether a partner needs you.

Avoid people who have problems you might need to solve.

You are not looking for a child.