Partner befriends ex who you blocked
- Memory
- Jan 17, 2022
- 1 min read
When an ex you blocked on social media, and your present partner become friends on social media
If you have nothing to hide, or have no concerns about the ex, then ignore and continue to live your best life.
As long as you are treating your partner with respect, love and the attention that is in the interest of the relationship, you have no need to worry.
If on the other hand, there are problems, some women usually look for the ex to access your unhealthy behaviour history.
Firstly, and honestly look into your own behaviours and then create a boundary.
Ask your girlfriend if she is happy and what would help the relationship? Learn to behave in a way you would appreciate in a partner too. They say, be the person you want to date.
You could curiously ask why she is friends with an ex you are not friends with, or who you might have blocked. Let her know that you are uncomfortable with her being friends with your ex, and explain your reasons if any. But that you understand she is free to make her own choices.
If you do have concerns, and you girlfriend ignores your request, unfriend her on on social media.
That is how you can hold your boundaries. Not saying they might not be communicating already, but if something makes you uncomfortable, you have responsibility to take charge in your own life.
It is important to be careful because drama might unfold in this situation. You do not want to betray your inner child by exposing him to harm.




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