Making relationship decisions

Why are you in this relationship? How do you feel in the relationship? Are you growing in this relationship? Are you trusted, respected and treated with compassion? Are you trusting, respectful and compassionate to your partner? Do you appreciate yourself and your partner? Do you have a self-care routine?Gratitude, Affirmations, Catharsis, Meditation, Boundaries, Intention, SIFTSEM? Journal. Do you have your own interests? Are you playful and fun? Can you both express yourselves freely? Do you have a date night weekly? Do you have a conflict resolution hour weekly? Do you allow each other freedom of choice? Is your relationship control free? Do you have a support circle for yourself? Do you practice mindful dating and being in the moment?