Is this where you want to be a year from now?

When you find yourself having problems in a new relationship or your relationship right now consider this. Is this where I want to be in one year? Two years? Ten years? Because unless you change something things will not get better!

These relationships you fight for, are the ones where you end up accusing each other of narcissism.

These relationships where you wait for them to decide what they want, are relationships where you will forever be waiting for someone to choose you!

These relationships where you beg , cry , ask non stop for your needs to be met, are the same relationships where you then accuse them later on of being abusive

These relationships where you have to pay your way to their heart, are relationships which will leave you with an empty love bank because you have exhausted all your love for someone who only loved your money.

These relationships where you chase someone relentlessly and you try too hard to make them see you, are the same relationships where you will feel as if you have wasted time.

These relationships where you want to whip someone into submission, are the relationships you will regret.

These relationships where you are seeking advice daily instead of following your inner guidance that is telling you things are not right, are relationships you will wish you could take your time back from.

These relationships where you have to fight for a slot in their life, are relationships where you will constantly need to prove your worth to be with them.

These relationships were you put up with abuse and make excuses for them, are the relationships that will make you feel at peace when you partner passes on.

These relationships were you have to monitor someone like a CCTV, are relationships that will make you seek a divorce in your 60s, 70s or even 80s.

These relationships where you have to pretend to be happy, will make you physically ill later on from suppressed emotions. The body keeps score.

These relationships will be regrettable.

You will not reflect on a life well lived.

You will be miserable and resent your old partner for life.

You might grow to be a bitter old couple.

Right now though, you can see the bus at the stop.

These relationships, are relationships you need to depart from immediately.

The bus from these relationships is waiting for you to pack up and leave. Right now!