He promised to marry you, got engaged and stalls each time you ask

Just because you are offered a job, it does not mean that you will be permanently employed. You can keep your job as long as the company is still running, has a position for you and you are fit for purpose for the job. Your employer is allowed to change their position depending on the dynamic.

Same applies to relationships. You are only in a relationship if you keep choosing each other. Just because someone promised to marry you, it does not mean that they are under any obligation to marry you.

There has to be incentive to marry and commit to you. Marriage or commitment is not about keeping a promise to another. It is committing to something that makes your life worthwhile.

People need to be careful about committing for the sake of committing. They need to commit because the relationship is aligned with their purpose.

If you keep asking, obviously, he might feel pressure. For any healthy relating person, pressure and desperation go together. They are a no go area.

With pressure, he will be running the opposite side of the alter. And for you, if you have to worry about his promises, you ought not to be focusing on marriage. You need to stop asking for commitment. If commitment is not offered freely, and voluntarily, you might want to start considering whether you are in the right relationship or not.

Inspire someone to want to be with you for long.

First off, identify whether you are enjoying life or pushing for marriage or commitment.

Step back and have fun. Invest in yourself and focus on your interests.

Give him space.

Live with gratitude and appreciation.

Give yourself a timelime to see what happens.

If you do not feel as if the relationship is fun and feel that promises are not being kept, then the last thing you want from such a person is commitment.

If they cannot be consistent, commitment is even harder.

The one thing that might help is actually leaving.

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Do not beg for things that come naturally in a relationship.