Everything you are asking for is updated

You are getting answers to your questions every day! It might be time to stop asking, and pay attention.. Every person and situation you encounter is not a coincidence. If you paid attention to the message, and to the lessons you might understand that each person who comes into your lives has a purpose. You have been asking and keep asking for various things in your life. You do not get those things you asked for delivered to you just like a FedEx parcel. The parcel does arrive, but you might not receive it because of what you are focusing on. Cooperative components are gathered and you will meet many different people who will allow your situation to unfold. This is why you meet people unexpectedly. Sometimes the person you want to be your cooperative component isn't! That is why you might be in a toxic relationship for 10 years. Your relationship parcel is still with FedEx who is looking for you to receive it! This is why you need to welcome each situation you encounter with curiosity. This is also why you benefit from taking responsibility to learn to pause and regulate yourself. This is why you do not fight for or work too hard for things that are not working out. Some people come into your life with a piece of information, to guide you to your next cooperative component. Other people come into your life with lessons in tolerance, acceptance and patience. Some people come into your life with things and money. There are also people who come into your life to provide an anchor. Others come into your life to enable the chaos that will take you to the next level. The idea is to hold everyone worthy in your life process without judgement. The idea is to realise that we are all equal, and inequality is a human construct. That is why we all come the same way, breathe in the same air, bleed, and go the same way. The idea is to trust the process. Sift through every situation, and learn from the negatives. Focus on solutions using the positives. Let go of control in difficult situations. Even the addict on the street can show you the way to the train station. He or she is being a cooperative component to your next level. Your toxic partner might be guiding you to examine your values, and to readjust your boundaries and prioritise yourself. Prioritise your wellbeing. You are at the wrong address. Your departed ex might be guiding you to prepare for your next relationship if you take a break and reflect on what went wrong. The break up is a cooperative component to your next relationship. Let go. Your challenging child might be teaching you a lesson in acceptance, or to acknowledge where you might need to apologise. You are human, you mess up! A child is a human being. Apologise. Your alienated parents might be teaching you a lesson in conflict resolution. Just because they caused trauma does not mean you are right in all you do. The friend who betrayed you might be teaching you a lesson in boundaries and letting go. You are on your way to the correct address. Keep moving forward. This is why you need to discern. And let go of control. Sometimes you let the very situation that would have allowed what you asked for pass you by, because you judged the situation by the person and their appearance. By place and timing. Or you were expecting something specific. Your situation will happen anytime, any place and with anyone. There is no timetable or manual for when it happens. Remember, the ball has to pass through several players before a goal is scored. You do not know all the players in your life playing ground. Some of them will come briefly and go. Others you will never meet. Each situation happens for a purpose. Whether you react or respond is up to you. If you are curious and decide to respond, you can learn something and evolve. If you believe anything that is not aligned with your thoughts, behaviour and attitude is wrong, you will react in the belief that life should go your way. You will therefore fight back anyone who does not agree with you, and stay stuck and unhappy. If everyone behaved in that manner, we would all be hating each other and fighting every minute. Because there is someone every second who disagrees with us, does not do what we want, and does not believe what we say. Welcome the box delivered by the universe in every situation you encounter. Open it with curiosity and respond! Or go up in arms and declare a war! Lessons or attack? Peacefulness or unhappiness. You choose.