A new navigation system for my loved once to me

#selfreparenting

On behalf of all of us who are trying to heal our lives.....A letter to our loved ones.

To my family and friends.

Here is an updated directory of where to find me.

An upgraded version of the navigation system of where I am existentially.

A new atlas of where growth is taking me.

Just to let you know ;

I am no longer found in frequent dysfunctional conversations. I have built a safe haven for my inner child.

The navigation system will not find me on destination "Taken for granted." I am aware of who I am and what I need in life.

I moved out of "No boundaries." I have moved to a place where I adhere to my values.

Arguments and misunderstandings where my home ground. I removed even the ground on which they were built. I have no need to be right.

The place where there was chaos and disorder lost its appeal. I live in this space where I manage myself and practice unconditional peacefulness.

The route to love used to be self-betrayal and " People pleasing!" I ended up where I am guided by tuning in to my "What, why and how."

I am not on the list of residents at " Chasing love." I have found peace where there is reciprocation.

"Dependence" is no longer on my map. I have moved on to interdependence.

"Manipulation and control" are old addresses.

I will not be found in "Enmeshed Situations." I live by my values, with a sense of self.

There is no me at " Forcing situations." I found ease at trusting and allowing others to be, do and have what they feel is best!"

The place where I believed nobody can teach me anything is closed. A new-build is in progress where I can learn from anyone.

On a path of denial I learnt nothing to improve my outcomes. Deep inside my heart I am now on the path of acceptance.

The "Perfectionist" address is now empty. I have found peace in being human and flawed, but with conscious awareness of constantly updating my behaviour.

If you look for me where there is "Competition" you will not find me. I am a niche. The universe built only "one me."

I lived on lanes where I did not feel good just to be accepted. I have now found comfort in knowing that people have preferences. So do I.

Once upon a time I lived in a street I believed was called "Romance is the only love you need." Now I have moved in a place called, " I am love!"

I stayed on "Blame and victim mode" for a long time. I am moving towards a massive space called "The dichotomy of control." I recognise my ability to do what I can and take change of my life.

I used to live Asleep and Unaware for a long time, I have moved to "tuning in to my emotions." I now follow my guidance system to navigate my life consciously.

The best place I now know where to live is in the moment, not attached to outcomes, and trusting the process.

If you drive to my old place, do not be surprised if you do not find me there. I have moved on.